Oh and those all important bills need paid each month, work on the computer, long with sorting that mail,writing this blog. You get the idea.
He on the other hand has a more basic use for the desk here at home,use the lap top which is mine when needed and any unexpected siting at a desk when he is away from his office..
Here is what it did to keep it the way I liked it an let my husband in to my space. You got it !
I shared my things and no longer referred to them as mine but ours. I gave him space to put his reading glasses.